Love is an Action Word
Tossed about without consideration, the word “love” is misused by almost each of its users. We say it without thought, often out of habit. When leaving the house for work, at the end of a phone conversation, or before nodding off to sleep we may say, “I love you”. Do we though? Do we love that person to whom we’ve said those words? Do we completely grab hold of and intend to follow through with its definition? I’m sure we have every good intention of that. I’m sure we think we mean what we say. There is no ill will or deceit intended with the sharing of these words to our loved one, but there is a definite lack of sincerity…whether realized or not.
Love. It is an action word. Yes, everyone wants to hear the words, “I love you”. More than that, though, one wants to feel loved. How do we accomplish that? How do we let that person know that there is a deep connection, an endearing affection for him? ACTION. Let’s just say it’s putting our money where our mouth is. Show the person you love him. This doesn’t mean spending tons of money unnecessarily. It means serving that person, demonstrating to him that he is wanted, needed, and cared for. It is a kind note, a hand-drawn picture, a special meal, etc. This isn’t for our spouses only. This is true of every relationship! Our friends and neighbors should never have to wonder if they are loved by you. Your actions prove that you do love them.
A personal touch, for those we are closest with, is vital. A genuine, deep hug can mean more to a person than words. A pat on the back or even a fist bump can show a person more emotion than just repeating words as we walk by.
How do you spell love? T-I-M-E. It’s that simple. How do you spend your free time? What is it you invest your time into regularly? That is the thing you love. Whatever it is. Whoever it is. How you spend your time is a great indicator of where your heart’s treasure is. For me, my spouse and family are where my extra time is spent. I take care of them. I see to their needs. We have game night. We talk. We laugh. We go for a walk. We take spontaneous day trips. I spend time with them because I love them and want to be near them.
Consider those you love. Then consider how they would ever really know that if the words, “I love you” were removed from your vocabulary. If you could never say those words to that person again, would they still feel their emotion of them? Would they see the effects of those words?
I encourage you to reflect on your relationships and see where you may improve in showing love to others. Make small but important changes to ensure each person in your life never questions or doubts your love for him.
